May 2015Duchess of Denver: May 2015

Friday, May 15, 2015

How to Survive Your Undergrad

I am officially a college graduate. Can you believe it?! These past four years really flew by, but I am thankful for each moment. I'm going to miss my good ol' on-campus apartment, my spunky professors (looking at you, Larkin), but most of all I'm going to miss all the friends I have made. College is a time where you not only discover what you want to do for the rest of your life, but who you want to be as a person in general.  That bratty teenager with braces and pigtails is far behind you and now you have to start making real adult decisions with real consequences. It might be scary but that's all a part of growing up! I'm here to give you some tips that I learned along the way, but keep in mind that college is different for everyone. Right now is your new beginning.

How to Survive Your Undergrad

Get Out There

The perks about being a student is that majority of events on campus are free to you.  Basketball games, ice cream socials, carnival days -- you have so many options! Also never pass up on free food because that's just naïve of you on your college budget.  But don't just get to know people through these events, first and foremost get to know the people in your dorm and your classes.  Those are the people you'll be around the most and trust me, as you start to have the same people in your classes over and over again it's nice to see a familiar face to sit next to. The important thing is to have fun and live it up!

Invest in a Reliable Laptop

The worst thing happened to me in October of 2012...my laptop crashed. It somehow caught a virus (here is my advice to not look for and watch every episode of The Simple Life online) and I lost everything. My new laptop is a champ and has literally withstood a screen crack, multiple falls off my desk, and countless run-ins with the rain or snow.  You don't want a computer that's going to die or freeze in the middle of your ten page term paper on the French Revolution.  Do your research at Best Buy and find a laptop that fits your needs but is still in your budget.  No need to drop 2 grand on a Macbook with graphic design capabilities when all you'll be using it for is the occasional paper and (everyday) Netflix encounter.

Rent Your Textbooks from the Library

Seriously, if you can rent your textbooks from the library then do it. It will save you money and the hassle of trying to sell them later on (Chegg still won't take my accounting book from sophomore year). You'll begin to see that a lot of your professors may say that you need a textbook, but a week into the class you'll realize it's not necessary and you handed over $200 on a hunk of paper for nothing.  If you do need a book for homework problems, this is where renting your textbook from the library comes in handy. A lot of professors keep their required textbooks on reserve so that you can rent them out for a few hours at a time.  When you're cranking out the week's homework you can just head on over to the library, borrow the book to do your problems, and then return it with no worries! This can be a serious life-saver, plus that extra money can be spent on what really matters -- late night Taco Bell runs.

Start Paying Off Your Loans Now

Having a job, I thought that it would only make sense to start paying off my loans since I'd have the extra cash.  This has paid off (literally) because by paying just $100 at the beginning of each month I have made a significant dent in my loans! Of course, you do need to make sure that you have the funds in your account every month, but that shouldn't be too hard! It's just like a rent or credit card payment because it's once a month and then you don't have to worry about it again for a whole other month. Everyone has debt after college (and if you don't I will hunt you down and make you pay mine) so it's actually really smart to get a head start on your loans.  Every bit counts, and it's less to worry about in the future!

Be Mature in Your Friendships

By this I don't mean making friends with people twice your age, but learning how to deal with relationships in an adult way.  Meaning, if you and your friend get into a fight, don't blast her on Twitter and start WWIII -- talk it out. While in high school it may have been acceptable to unfriend your BFF on Facebook for a week until she apologized; in college not so much. I have learned the art of forgiveness, and I hope it's something you learn, too. At the time it may be logical to be angry at your friend for texting the boy you like, but 3 years later you won't even remember that guy's last name. Girlfriends are sacred and you'll want to keep them closer than that cute guy in your seminar who's talking to four other girls. Everyone makes mistakes, you just have to learn which ones are unforgivable.  It will take time but it will also show you who your true friends are.

Take the Time to Study

While binge-watching LOST may seem like the better option (I mean, you get to drool over Sawyer), please please PLEASE take the time to study!  Even if it's just 20 minutes a day or, let's be real, an hour a week, it will help immensely.  Study with friends, go to office hours, find a tutor -- just try and get the most our of your education.  Don't be that loser who wasted her parents money and flunked out first semester freshman year. You'll begin to adjust with what classes need the most of your time, and once you get in the swing of things studying will just become second nature. Take a look at some of my study tips here.

Don't Under or Over Do It with Your Credit Hours

Don't be the kid who takes 12 or less credit hours a semester and is now a year behind everyone else. College should be a four year ordeal -- not five.  That being said, also don't stress yourself to graduate early and take 18 credit hours full of tough major-required classes,  Most colleges recommend 15 hours a semester, and that is exactly what I did and look at me now! Taking 5-6 classes a semester that are spread out will still give you time to relax and be social. Most schools also offer summer or interim classes which can also be a great way to get credits out of the way. If you've read my Napa post (um, you should have) then you know that I took that class over Spring Break for 3 credits without the worry of my other classes! Try things out and find your groove so that you can actually graduate with your friends!

Take a Fun Class Outside Your Major

I love marketing, but I'll be damned if I can sit through one more presentation of the 4Ps.  There are so many options out there that you just have to look! I've talked about it enough by now, but both of my wine classes were my favorite throughout all of college.  I learned things I never would have before, and now I can be the snob at the restaurant who rejects a corked bottle! Try pilates or swing dancing or painting -- you never know what will become your new passion. This is also a great way to meet new people and expand your networking opportunities! Who knows, down the road that girl in your yoga class may be Jennifer Lawrence's new instructor...and she'll have an extra spot in class just for you!

Be Adventurous!

In the mood to road trip to the ocean? Do it! Curious about the art event your school is throwing? Go to it! Don't hold yourself back because college is all about discovering yourself. I've done spontaneous trips to Vegas, mountain excursions,dropping too much money on dinner and drinks...it's all about having fun while you can. Don't just sit at home on the weekend and be boring -- get out there and go do something you've never done before! Do you really think you'll regret going to that spontaneous concert five years from now? Make memories!


If you haven't noticed already, I changed my blog title to the Duchess of Denver (it suits me). In honor of my graduation I am turning a new leaf and I hope you all stay on the journey with me! You can follow me on basically all social media platforms (my Twitter, Pinterest, and Instagram are linked on the side) and feel free to leave a comment with any questions or concerns!


Until next time my loves x.

Tuesday, May 5, 2015

Graduation Gift Guide: Best Friend

Ah, I can't believe it's already time for graduation! And you know what that means...grad parties! The proper protocol is to bring a gift with you for the grad (even if you're graduating yourself). I would say, for college, the price range should be around $25-60, depending on how close you are to them. The easy route is a gift card (Starbucks and Target never fail) but if you want to go the extra mile I have some ideas for you!


Best Friend Graduation Gift Guide


1. Graduation Build-a-Bear ($30) -- How cute is this bear?! I am a proud owner of 5+ Build-a-Bears (okay, slight shame) and these guys just keep getting cuter. A teddy bear is the perfect gift for your BFF to remember you by because every time she looks at it she'll think of you! The best part with Build-a-Bear is that you can have the bear say something special, like "I love you" or sing One Direction!! That's really all she'll need, ya?

2. Bottled Dreams Perfume Sampler ($58) -- For the woman about to enter the workforce, this is a smart gift.  Every professional woman needs a signature scent (mine is Coco de Mademoiselle) and this sampler let's her test out a few before she makes the final decision. The greatest thing about this gift is that she can redeem a coupon in Sephora stores that let's her pick up a full-size bottle of her favorite scent. Genius!

3. Kate Spade Business Card Holder ($30) -- Who doesn't have business cards (or dear Lord go buy some)? This business card holder is chic and stylish so she can carry her cards in her purse and be professional where ever she goes! It's also more personal because you can get her a holder with her own initial. She'll be thanking you for it!

4. "The Thing About Life" Box Sign ($14) -- Inspiration!  Transitioning from the comforts of going to class and goofing off to having to be a real adult can be difficult. Give her this sign so that she can stay motivated and work her butt off! Imagine it on her dresser at home so that when she's getting ready for a big interview you'll be the one to tahnk for her big boost of confidence!

5. Class of 2015 Champagne Glass ($14) -- Everyone loves champagne (if you don't then you've had a cheap imitation). How adorable is this graduation champagne flute? The grad cap has "Class of 2015" in a mosaic on top to give it extra flare. She can use this to toast at all the grad parties she'll be heading to later on! Or I mean she can be like me and just pour herself a glass of prosecco and re-watch Gossip Girl for the fifth time...


I am beyond excited to graduate! In less than two weeks I will be walking the stage to collect my diploma! The years have flown by and am going to cry once reality kicks in that I won't be able to see my friends everyday. Cheers to the rest of our lives!


Are you graduating? Any cute gift ideas? Let me know in the comments below!


Until next time my loves x.

Monday, May 4, 2015

Happy Birthday to Me!

I don't know about you, but I'm feeling 22 today! (Omg I am so sorry for the overused pun but it's a once in a lifetime opportunity, okay?) I had to make a post to commemorate my birthday and all the fun I had this weekend. Big shout-out to the best girlfriends a girl could ask for: McKenna, Emily, Nicole, Christina, and Joanna!

From left to right: Christina, McKenna, me, Emily, and Joanna

I love my birthday not only because I was born (duh) but because it's the coolest birth date ever! May the Fourth be With You anyone?? I'm a big Star Wars nerd (thanks, older brother) so it only fits that I was born on Star Wars day! It also makes it super easy to remember my birthday. Perfect! But that's not the only special thing...I share a birthday with my idol Audrey Hepburn! How fabulous is that?? I have loved her ever since I stumbled upon Breakfast at Tiffany's on AMC late one night. I have now watched every movie she's ever been in and I feel like I am her reincarnated. Is that weird?

Happy with my bacon pecan brownie sundae from the Ritz

Since my birthday falls on a Monday this year (ew), I celebrated with friends on Saturday.  We went downtown to the Ritz Grill and stuffed our faces with martinis and fancy appetizers. Then after we hit the bars to mooch as many free drinks off of people that we could!

Channeling Carrie Bradshaw with a Cosmo

My favorite stop of the night was the Rabbit Hole -- an underground (literally) Alice in Wonderland themed restaurant with some of the best martinis around! Of course I chose "The Dutchess" martini (even though it's spelled weird... but hey that's how it is in the book) which was champagne and grapefruit! And it had a gorgeous flower inside the glass. I would have gotten a picture but the lighting was so dim that I didn't want to use my flash and blind all the patrons! McKenna got a Cherry Limeade martini which tasted like a Sourpatch Kid. Then they even had Emily's and my favorite thing...ice wine! So of course she got a glass and we were in heaven.

The Duchess and her cake

After that we came back to my apartment for cake and champagne (okay, I know we drank a little too much but it was my BIRTHDAY party after all). My mom bought me the most beautiful cake from a bakery in Denver and it was delicious! Chocolate cake with salted caramel inside...what could be better? Plus the crowns on the outside made it a cake fit for a Duchess!

My birthday was so much fun and I just want to thank all my friends again for celebrating with me. Here's hoping 22 will be a good year!


Until next time my loves x.